Six Months with Penny – Oh My Canine!
Friday evening, after the women had been down, I climbed underneath my weighted blanket with a glass of wine, Dogland (so, so good, btw), and Penny, who promptly fell asleep on my arm.
She twitched a little bit as she snoozed, and when John walked by the bed room on his strategy to the closet, she lifted her head.
We each assumed she noticed or smelled him. However, when he approached to pet her, she leapt off the bed with a bark and a growl.
He jumped again.
Instantly, Penny realized it was John and settled. He, nevertheless, felt very unsettled.
She is so good and candy and delicate that we regularly neglect–and, thus, take without any consideration–that she got here to us with important trauma.
And although six good months have helped her heal considerably, she has greater than two years earlier than that stuffed with neglect and abuse. After we neglect that reality, once we drop our cautious consideration, that can at all times be on us, by no means on her.
With that in thoughts, I wished to share Penny’s replace partly to assist anybody else who’s adopted a canine from comparable circumstances really feel much less alone, and partly to present myself a report in order that I can proceed to look again and see how far we’ve come.
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I do know you realize this sense as a result of I’m pretty sure it’s common: How on earth does time transfer so quick?
Penny joined our household a little bit greater than six months in the past, and whereas that’s hardly any time in any respect, it additionally appears like she’s been right here endlessly.
However, first, when you’re new right here, welcome! We misplaced our canine, Cooper, final fall, and it was actually, actually troublesome for us and our women. Whereas we didn’t plan for issues to maneuver so shortly, we adopted Penny and listed here are a number of posts to catch you up on her story:
Meet Penny!
The three-3-3 Rule for Canine Rescue
It’s okay to not be okay
And that brings us to at this time, the six-ish-month mark with fairly Penny.
This previous week has been fascinating.
Together with the incident with John, a number of instances lately she lurched out of sleep with a giant growl or bark. We’ve bolstered the dog-safe floor guidelines with the women of no waking or petting Penny if she’s asleep. If we have to wake her up, I’ll accomplish that by both flicking the lights or stomping my toes.
Despite the fact that she appears so settled in, concern nonetheless plagues my woman.
That’s been obvious, too, with a regression on our neighborhood strolls.
We seen Penny startled excess of normal on our walks.
To start with, every little thing scared her, so walks had been gradual and treat-heavy as we tried to cross one home, then two, then the block, and so forth. It didn’t take her lengthy to understand she loved walks and, so long as we saved it gradual, she persevered. (Gradual, for actual. It takes her about an hour to stroll a mile.)
After a number of months, Penny confidently walked the recognized streets of our neighborhood and delighted in strolling by parks and alongside trails.
Sometimes, although, she flinches. One thing scares her, and he or she cowers.
Pancakes.
After which… recovers.
This week, although, she struggled to get better. It’s not been as dangerous because it was these first couple months, nevertheless it actually appears like a setback.
On the flip facet:
Twice within the final month, she walked down the entrance hallway in our home.
This can be a feat she’s but to aim till now. You may’ve seen on Instagram a number of months in the past, Penny conquering the hallway in the home that connects the bed room to the kitchen to the lounge:
After a number of tries over a pair weeks, a swap flipped and he or she was over it!
Now, I’m not going to say she’s “conquering” the entrance hallway in the identical means.
She’s accomplished it solely these two instances, and he or she has a wonderfully affordable path to keep away from it altogether (she will stroll by the lounge to go upstairs and by no means have to make use of that hallway), however the truth that she’s tried it–twice!–appears like ahead progress.
One step ahead and one other step again
I suppose that’s restoration, isn’t it?
Progress won’t ever be linear.
The previous lives on in her thoughts and her physique.
However, previously six months she’s discovered that good meals comes frequently. She’s discovered the right way to ask for what she desires. She’s discovered the right way to cuddle and zoom across the yard.
She’s nonetheless studying security.
She’s studying she will belief us, that we are going to by no means harm her. She’s studying the right way to play with toys. She’s studying the right way to reside with two very completely different cats. She’s studying that she’s protected even when she doesn’t at all times really feel protected.
So, what are the six-month classes?
Time and endurance, earlier than all else.
We have to bear in mind to not take progress without any consideration. She’s doing superb AND we have to account for and accommodate the previous she carries together with her.
Largely, I’m so grateful for this candy woman. She’s an unimaginable canine. Mild, candy, humorous, and on the cusp of letting her foolish facet free!
I’m additionally grateful to be entrusted together with her care, to assist her discover her footing and really feel protected on this planet.
I’m excited to see the place she goes within the subsequent six months and am leaving this submit right here to look again on once we’re celebrating her first gotcha day as a result of I’ve a lot religion in Penny. I do know every small setback will probably be accompanied by even greater leaps ahead.
Till then, time and endurance. Which all of us deserve.
In case you loved this submit, you’ll additionally take pleasure in my forthcoming guide, For the Love of Canine, from Regalo Press in 2025. It’s chock stuffed with the most recent analysis in canine cognition mixed with tales of my canine to deliver the info to life. To remain up-to-date on the most recent with my publication information, comply with alongside on Instagram. I’d love to attach with you and your canine!
