The three-3-3 Rule of Canine Rescue and a Penny Progress Replace
Have you ever heard of the 3-3-3 rule of adopting a brand new canine?
It’s a set of tips for transitioning a brand new canine into your house. Don’t let the phrases “rule” or “tips” trick you into considering it is a hard-and-fast scenario. Moderately, I like to think about it extra as a framework or mindset to assist your new canine settle.
Let’s dig in, and I’m going to share how our new pup, Penny, is doing on the identical time.
Right here’s the gist of the 3-3-3 rule:
The primary 3 days are on your canine to acclimate to his or her new environment. That is the “the place the heck am I” and “am I staying right here” part. At this level, your canine isn’t displaying his or her true colours due to the overwhelm.
The primary 3 weeks are on your canine to be taught the family guidelines and bounds in a loving, variety, constructive means. It begins your bonding course of off on the correct foot (er, paw?) and establishes the inspiration of your relationship.
The primary 3 months are for socialization, coaching, and new experiences. By the top of three months, your canine ought to really feel settled and safe. Part of the household.
All through these first three days, weeks, and months, your job is to remain affected person. Set up variety boundaries. Stay calm. Present your canine with a protected, quiet house to make use of at his or her will. Be constant and sort. Reward what you need. Ignore or redirect what you don’t need. Begin fundamental coaching. Stroll day by day, when you can. Perceive upfront your canine will begin to take a look at boundaries. Be affected person and keep constant.
Your canine’s job? Sniff, discover, take a look at, experiment. Actually, it’s to check the boundaries and determine what’s and isn’t acceptable conduct in your house. As your pup turns into safer in your house, you’ll begin to see much more of his or her true character shine by means of.
After three months, proceed to coach, problem, and socialize together with your pup, although she or he needs to be assured that your loved ones is right here to remain–no extra shelter for you, pupperoo!
So, how’s Penny doing?
In case you haven’t but met Penny, right here’s the primary put up the place I launched her and defined a little bit of her background and quirks. Trying again at that put up, I’m amazed at how far she’s come… however extra on that in a sec.
Conserving the 3-3-3 rule in thoughts, I additionally up to date on her progress after the primary month. On this occasion, I stretched these first three weeks into 4 largely as a result of week one for Penny consisted of sleep, sleep, and extra sleep. Trauma restoration, we expect.
Now, we’re simply previous the three-month mark, and there’s a number of progress to share!
On reflection, at three days, Penny wasn’t even able to deal with family routines. She wanted to sleep and eat. That was it.
At three weeks, she felt safer and extra built-in into the family, however her concern nonetheless dominated. Even at 4 weeks, once I wrote that final replace, she nonetheless oscillated between consolation and concern each single day.
Penny’s 3-month replace
She’s doing amazingly effectively.
Penny walks across the neighborhood most days. Some days–twice final week–one thing scares her, however she trusts us sufficient to know that when she freezes and turns towards dwelling, we are going to comply with as a substitute of push.
She performs with toys. Now she must be taught the distinction between canine toys and child toys, however actually? That’s on the people, not the canine. Violet and Astrid shortly discovered the consequence of not choosing up their toys and stuffed animals.
She sleeps a traditional schedule now, which is a big reduction.
Penny not too long ago entered the kitchen–twice–all on her personal. We doled out reward and treats, however that wasn’t sufficient to persuade her it’s a protected house but. She hasn’t returned since.
She nonetheless hasn’t walked down the entrance corridor. Possibly she’s going to sometime. Possibly she gained’t. For now, she’s established an extended route by means of the lounge to get to the steps and skips the hallway altogether. And that’s OK. She’ll get there… or she gained’t. Once more, I’m not prepared to push on issues that don’t matter.
Lest the 3-3-3 rule appear too good
I checked out a number of infographics that implied your canine will likely be completely settled in at three months! Congrats! You made it!
Besides. Nuh-uh.
Possibly your canine completely match proper into your loved ones and your family and by three months hit a strong stride.
It’s potential, nevertheless it appears much less probably than your canine needing a bit longer than that mark, which is why I like to think about it extra because the 3-3-3 guideline.
Penny nonetheless flinches whenever you increase an arm or leg close to her (although she hangs out once I follow yoga, in order that’s enormous progress). She gained’t stroll down the hallway–or enter a rest room, the eating room, or the laundry room, for that matter. She feels safer lounging in her crate than she does snuggling on my mattress.
Candy Penny whines and cries when she realizes somebody is someplace she will’t entry (like the lavatory or eating room) and won’t go to the lavatory on a stroll.
She drinks water from puddles within the yard and is simply now beginning to belief the canine bowls of contemporary water on the deck and in the home.
At three months, your canine in all probability understands she or he is right here to remain. And that’s superior. That’s an enormous hurdle for canines who’ve been bounced round from shelters or rescues or foster houses or unstable, unsafe conditions like Penny’s.
The remaining depends upon the canine’s character and the family people’ canine expertise.
So, when you’re somebody who reads one thing like this set of tips and feels such as you’re failing as a result of your canine remains to be scared / reactive / untrained / no matter on the three-month mark, relaxation assured that you just’re superb. Your canine is okay. I imply, heck, I labored with Cooper for greater than 13 years and he by no means “overcame” his concern or his reactivity.
It’s not about having a “good” canine after three months. It’s about constructing a bond together with your canine, constructing belief and safety. Giving your canine a way of security.
The remaining, like Penny’s hallway, will both come or it gained’t.
Should you loved this put up, you’ll in all probability take pleasure in my forthcoming e book, For the Love of Canine, from Regalo Press in February 2025. It’s chock stuffed with the most recent analysis in canine cognition mixed with tales of my canines to carry the info to life. To remain up-to-date on the most recent with Penny and my publication information, be part of the mailing record or comply with alongside on Instagram.
